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		<title>By: And they call me an Engineer &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Bad Patriotism</title>
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		<dc:creator>And they call me an Engineer &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Bad Patriotism</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:53:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Wow&#8230; talk about overreaction as well as bad patriotism.  This is the negativity that The Centrist mentioned in this article. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Wow&#8230; talk about overreaction as well as bad patriotism.  This is the negativity that The Centrist mentioned in this article. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Centrist</title>
		<link>http://www.notquitecenter.com/2008/05/27/deficiencies-and-slights/comment-page-1/#comment-489</link>
		<dc:creator>Centrist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 19:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Last Action Hero - Best Schwartznegger (sp?) movie ever.  Funny how Slater didn&#039;t listen and became the governator.

Speaking of the SWOT analysis--or in this case, the SO analysis--it looks like America&#039;s Big Three auto makers didn&#039;t see the bottom falling out of the big truck/SUV market.  Who saw it coming?  Better question: who didn&#039;t see it coming?  The entire continents of Asia and Europe saw it.  I really think we Americans are sometimes so Americo-centric that we think things will turn out how we want just because we&#039;re Americans.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last Action Hero &#8211; Best Schwartznegger (sp?) movie ever.  Funny how Slater didn&#8217;t listen and became the governator.</p>
<p>Speaking of the SWOT analysis&#8211;or in this case, the SO analysis&#8211;it looks like America&#8217;s Big Three auto makers didn&#8217;t see the bottom falling out of the big truck/SUV market.  Who saw it coming?  Better question: who didn&#8217;t see it coming?  The entire continents of Asia and Europe saw it.  I really think we Americans are sometimes so Americo-centric that we think things will turn out how we want just because we&#8217;re Americans.</p>
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		<title>By: Reluctant</title>
		<link>http://www.notquitecenter.com/2008/05/27/deficiencies-and-slights/comment-page-1/#comment-488</link>
		<dc:creator>Reluctant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 18:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree.  I&#039;m not saying that the Cons have it right.  Go back and read my comments.  All I&#039;m saying is that the Dems focus on the negative and the Cons focus on the positive.  And both are self-serving.

And that&#039;s why everyone hates politicians.

Reminds me of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107362/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Last Action Hero&lt;/a&gt; when Slater is brought into the &quot;normal&quot; world.  The theater owner mentions all the evils of the world including earthquakes, tornadoes, murderers.  He mentions politicians twice, which Slater points out.  To which he response, &quot;I know. That&#039;s because they are the worst part of this world.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree.  I&#8217;m not saying that the Cons have it right.  Go back and read my comments.  All I&#8217;m saying is that the Dems focus on the negative and the Cons focus on the positive.  And both are self-serving.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s why everyone hates politicians.</p>
<p>Reminds me of <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107362/" rel="nofollow">Last Action Hero</a> when Slater is brought into the &#8220;normal&#8221; world.  The theater owner mentions all the evils of the world including earthquakes, tornadoes, murderers.  He mentions politicians twice, which Slater points out.  To which he response, &#8220;I know. That&#8217;s because they are the worst part of this world.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Mike W.</title>
		<link>http://www.notquitecenter.com/2008/05/27/deficiencies-and-slights/comment-page-1/#comment-487</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 18:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reluctant,

Sounds like you&#039;ve made Dave&#039;s point against all the stuff coming out of the White House and right-wing talk radio. Folks that are blowing sunshine up the nation&#039;s collective whazoo are those most likely trying to deceive you (convince you about a bad war) and take something from you (like your civil liberties). 

I do agree that constant, unremitting criticism is also unlistenable. However, most of what we hear from folks like Carter, Obama, etc. is not unremitting. It is hopeful and necessary. We must listen or we will continue in our current state. If we don&#039;t like the messenger, we can dismiss that person. But we ought not dismiss the message.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reluctant,</p>
<p>Sounds like you&#8217;ve made Dave&#8217;s point against all the stuff coming out of the White House and right-wing talk radio. Folks that are blowing sunshine up the nation&#8217;s collective whazoo are those most likely trying to deceive you (convince you about a bad war) and take something from you (like your civil liberties). </p>
<p>I do agree that constant, unremitting criticism is also unlistenable. However, most of what we hear from folks like Carter, Obama, etc. is not unremitting. It is hopeful and necessary. We must listen or we will continue in our current state. If we don&#8217;t like the messenger, we can dismiss that person. But we ought not dismiss the message.</p>
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		<title>By: Reluctant</title>
		<link>http://www.notquitecenter.com/2008/05/27/deficiencies-and-slights/comment-page-1/#comment-486</link>
		<dc:creator>Reluctant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 18:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, so I didn&#039;t really finish my thought there.  They learn to stop listening to someone who is always talking positives because they realize that they aren&#039;t getting honest feedback/commentary.

I had a co-worker that was always complimenting me on my work/code and never once gave any constructive criticism or disagreement.  I promptly ignored him because I realized that none of it was honest. He later turned out to be a compulsive liar who stole a bunch of our code and created a competing product. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so I didn&#8217;t really finish my thought there.  They learn to stop listening to someone who is always talking positives because they realize that they aren&#8217;t getting honest feedback/commentary.</p>
<p>I had a co-worker that was always complimenting me on my work/code and never once gave any constructive criticism or disagreement.  I promptly ignored him because I realized that none of it was honest. He later turned out to be a compulsive liar who stole a bunch of our code and created a competing product. <img src='http://www.notquitecenter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Centrist</title>
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		<dc:creator>Centrist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 17:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is that why people don&#039;t listen to me anymore?  Because I&#039;m just too positive? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is that why people don&#8217;t listen to me anymore?  Because I&#8217;m just too positive? <img src='http://www.notquitecenter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Reluctant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reluctant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 17:04:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not saying that the criticism isn&#039;t real and good.  I&#039;m saying that the Dems (and the Cons) need to have a balance. When you talk to a person that only gives you criticism and no praise, you get really tired of talking to that person.  And when you talk to someone who only talks about the positives, you learn to not listen.

Balance is all I&#039;m talking about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not saying that the criticism isn&#8217;t real and good.  I&#8217;m saying that the Dems (and the Cons) need to have a balance. When you talk to a person that only gives you criticism and no praise, you get really tired of talking to that person.  And when you talk to someone who only talks about the positives, you learn to not listen.</p>
<p>Balance is all I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike W.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Viewed as being negative by whom? By those who only want to pretend there are no problems. Carter&#039;s &quot;Crisis of Confidence&quot; speech is a great example of this whole concept. If the U.S. (or conservatives specifically) had listened and applied, our situation would be dramatically different. Instead, Reagan and his advisers made fun of the speech, calling it the &quot;malaise&quot; speech, implying that what we needed to do was not think about the problems, only think about what made us great, and the problems would magically fix themselves. 30 years later we are in a worse situation the the same people want us to again not talk about the problems??? It just doesn&#039;t make any sense to me at all. Read the &quot;Crisis of Confidence&quot; speech, Reluctant, and see what you think. I think that you&#039;ll find that these issues absolutely need to be highlighted, not the continued &quot;France would be speaking German if it weren&#039;t for us&quot; diatribe.

http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/jimmycartercrisisofconfidence.htm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Viewed as being negative by whom? By those who only want to pretend there are no problems. Carter&#8217;s &#8220;Crisis of Confidence&#8221; speech is a great example of this whole concept. If the U.S. (or conservatives specifically) had listened and applied, our situation would be dramatically different. Instead, Reagan and his advisers made fun of the speech, calling it the &#8220;malaise&#8221; speech, implying that what we needed to do was not think about the problems, only think about what made us great, and the problems would magically fix themselves. 30 years later we are in a worse situation the the same people want us to again not talk about the problems??? It just doesn&#8217;t make any sense to me at all. Read the &#8220;Crisis of Confidence&#8221; speech, Reluctant, and see what you think. I think that you&#8217;ll find that these issues absolutely need to be highlighted, not the continued &#8220;France would be speaking German if it weren&#8217;t for us&#8221; diatribe.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/jimmycartercrisisofconfidence.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/jimmycartercrisisofconfidence.htm</a></p>
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		<title>By: Reluctant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reluctant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:18:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My point is that even if the people KNOW the accomplishments of the nation, the Dems are viewed as being very negative towards it.  All I&#039;m saying is that it wouldn&#039;t hurt them one bit to highlight the positives as well.  Unless they are playing on the fears of the people, they shouldn&#039;t be afraid to talk about all the good that happens in this country and the good that is accomplished by the government.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My point is that even if the people KNOW the accomplishments of the nation, the Dems are viewed as being very negative towards it.  All I&#8217;m saying is that it wouldn&#8217;t hurt them one bit to highlight the positives as well.  Unless they are playing on the fears of the people, they shouldn&#8217;t be afraid to talk about all the good that happens in this country and the good that is accomplished by the government.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike W.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are some very interesting books out by a group called the Arbinger Institute, a group that advises businesses about organizational behavior. The main book is entitled &quot;Leadership and Self-Deception.&quot; The main ideas of this institute are that if a leader sees a problem within the company, often times that problems is with the way the leader is doing things. However, most leaders persist in blaming others for the problems, deceiving themselves as to the cause of the problems. They work to change others within the company (which in reality they cannot do) instead of changing themselves (which is the only change they actually can make if they are willing to stop deceiving themselves as to where the problem lies).

I think the point that Dave makes is powerful. Until the U.S. can overcome it&#039;s self-deception, it will fail to be the powerful leader that it was fore-ordained to be. As Lincoln stated when discussing freeing the slaves: &quot;We--even we here--hold the power, and bear the responsibility. In giving freedom to the slave, we assure freedom to the free--honorable alike in what we give, and what we preserve. We shall nobly save, or meanly lose, the last best hope of earth.&quot;

If conservatives truly believe that America is the &quot;last best hope&quot; they need to recognize, and focus on, the profound problems we have. Self-deception necessitates failure. And unless the U.S. owns up to the problems it has and the problems it causes and has caused in the world, our foreign policy will continue to fail.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are some very interesting books out by a group called the Arbinger Institute, a group that advises businesses about organizational behavior. The main book is entitled &#8220;Leadership and Self-Deception.&#8221; The main ideas of this institute are that if a leader sees a problem within the company, often times that problems is with the way the leader is doing things. However, most leaders persist in blaming others for the problems, deceiving themselves as to the cause of the problems. They work to change others within the company (which in reality they cannot do) instead of changing themselves (which is the only change they actually can make if they are willing to stop deceiving themselves as to where the problem lies).</p>
<p>I think the point that Dave makes is powerful. Until the U.S. can overcome it&#8217;s self-deception, it will fail to be the powerful leader that it was fore-ordained to be. As Lincoln stated when discussing freeing the slaves: &#8220;We&#8211;even we here&#8211;hold the power, and bear the responsibility. In giving freedom to the slave, we assure freedom to the free&#8211;honorable alike in what we give, and what we preserve. We shall nobly save, or meanly lose, the last best hope of earth.&#8221;</p>
<p>If conservatives truly believe that America is the &#8220;last best hope&#8221; they need to recognize, and focus on, the profound problems we have. Self-deception necessitates failure. And unless the U.S. owns up to the problems it has and the problems it causes and has caused in the world, our foreign policy will continue to fail.</p>
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